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change.
There are 3 types of people in your life: the old ones, the new ones, & the ones that have always been there.
The old ones provide you with memories, some good, some bad. They are pretty much responsible for the person you are today. And often, the old ones are much better off old.
The new ones bring excitement, and even something that you need at only this stage in your life, and not at any other time. New people are always so interesting and provide new opportunites and i certainly suggest that you take them.
Then there are the 3rd, and most important kind: the people that will always be there. Those are the people that you often take for granted, but really couldn’t live without. The people that should never become old ones.
But see when they do, that is one of the things I find hardest to cope with. When the people you thought, you assumed would always just be there, aren’t anymore. This I would say, is the scariest change.
I genuinely find it terrifying, how much things change. People you thought you knew so well one day, the next day seem like strangers. And the worst kind of change, the change you know you cant do anything about. Its inevitable. You notice you’re relationship slowly deteriorating, but still, it doesn’t get better. And then one day, they are someone you knew.
The people I love, I hate to lose.
So change with them is something that really does bother me.
Stupid change.
